Oh my goodness what a day…..

by Lori

I sure had my ups and my downs today. I will ask for forgiveness for my ramblings ahead of time. But writing might be therapy for me today. If you chose to click away, I totally understand.

Today started out good and as normal as any other day.

First I had my middle son’s Pride Awards assembly, which I am proud to say he did really, really well. He received three awards: Honor Roll, Citizenship Award, & Mathematics Award. So of course I as a mother was patting myself on the back for a job well done. Ok I know he has done all the work, but you know sometimes it is hard work to be the support system. But you know what they say pride comes before the (oh what is that word….)

oh yea….FALL. No sooner did I pat myself on the back, did I receive a call from the middle school. Oldest son was in a fight, and could I please come get him. Wait they must be talking about another parent, I just went to an award assembly and found out what a good parent I was.

I guess Oldest son, was sticking up for another child (and the counselor confirmed this) and they got in a shoving match. I guess this other kid is a bully, who is not nice to a lot of other people. So when my son kind of gave this kid a little of his own medicine, well lets just say they were both hauled in for fighting. When my son was walking away all of the PE class was clapping at him because he stood up to the other boy.

Now let me tell you, I in no way condone fighting. And I told my son you have to accept the consequences of your actions. If you get in trouble at school, you get in trouble at home. And has had a lot of privileges taken away.

But behind closed doors where no one can hear me. As a mother I am proud that my son stood up for others that were being pushed around.

Anyways, I went from cloud 10 of being a good parent, to ground negative 1 to looking like a bad parent. Oh that pride gets in the way so much.

Then I had another UP for the day (it was a roller coaster of a day I tell ya). I got to talk to one of my favorite bloggers on the phone today. I think I babbled her ear off I was so giddy and excited. Oh you want to know who? DeeDee from “It Could’ve Been Worse”. I blurted out all about my son, and she is so sweet. Oh my goodness I am so blessed by her, I pray one day to become in real life friends. Like I said though the conversation was kind of a blur I was so giddy with excitement.

Then I come home to boys who acted like they have been eating sugar all day. BOUNCING. OFF. THE. WALLS. Is it a full moon today? I don’t know. Even when I sent them outside to play I could hear the thumping of tons of balls, either against my house, against the fence, anywhere and everywhere. I felt the pounding in my head. So I head to the mailbox.

Oh my goodness I was again blessed today SO MUCH. Take a look at this card I got in the mail, this was handmade for me. SOMEONE DREW THIS BY HAND…..FOR ME!!


If you look closely, there is a little FOR SALE sign in front of the yard with balloons on it. Then in the yard are boy toys (and that is what my yard looks like scattered with toys). Who did this for me?

Heather at GRACED BY CHRIST I am not even sure how to thank you. I have already thanked her by email, I thanked her again in my comments section. And now on my blog….

I was just so amazed someone would put their time and effort into doing something like this for me. Heather, thank you so much.

The good news:

Then we all headed out to three soccer games. My Oldest tied his game, middle son made a goal and his team won, and youngest scored a goal and his team won.

The bad news:

My computer is still broken, won’t get it for another week. Hard drive fried (after only 3 months of use). I am so mad I could spit, but that would be unlady like. So I will just wait patiently.

Awesome news:

And in two week I get to sit across from a table and chat with Iris at Sting My Heart. Oh my goodness I am so blessed.

See I told you this would be therapy, I began this post feeling worn out, defeated and run over, but as I listed all the wonderful things that happened today, they were so much more than the bad.

Praise God even in my mundane everyday life, I see you Jesus so evident blessing me and loving me. Through friends and through my family. THANK YOU JESUS.

And if you read all of this, my goodness God Bless You Too!!!!

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  • Karen
    Look how God is working in your sons lives!!! That's awesome about the middle son and the oldest, well, he was sticking up for others, so we can relish and be thankful for that.
    And awesome card from Heather!!!
  • Linds
    Crazy day, but definitely many more ups than downs! And you must be very proud of your boys. Standing up for someone else is never easy.
    Have a peaceful weekend!
  • cajunquilter
    I am proud of your son to for sticking up for someone!

    Isn't it amazing when we start listing the blessings that they always out weigh they bad in our life.
  • Cyndi
    Wow, I just rode that roller coaster right along with you, girl! What a day, indeed. Your sons all sound like such fine young men. You should be proud. And *good for your son* for standing up for another child, even though it cost him.

    And, oooh, you and Iris and just going to have the *best* time!! Ya'll write down everything and share it with the rest of us!
  • Susanne
    That was a hard thing for your oldest. Good for him! And congrats to your other boy for his awards. You have every right to be proud mom.
  • Fiddledeedee (It Coulda' Been
    Oh L.W., you crack me up. I'm the one who was blessed by you. I so enjoyed talking to you "in real time." And I do consider you a real life friend. Through our "flash" e-mails, you know more about me than most!

    You did have quite a day! I hope today is shaping up to be calmer. I have all 3 kids home today, and I feel like a referee.

    God bless you, my friend!
  • Shalee
    I would say that you were more on the up than down. And I totally would have been proud of your eldest. He did the right thing at the right time, despite knowing the consequences. And that makes ME proud - and I'm not even his mother!

    I'm glad that you're being blessed left and "write" from friends. (Cute card! Now let's pray that God will allow her to send you another with the SOLD sign on it too!)
  • Sharon
    Isn't God good. A little sunshine,a little thunderstorm and rain, a little "sonshine". He knows how to even it all out so in the end it is for our good. What a card. How beautiful. I know you made the painter feel as good as you did receiving it.
  • Beckie
    Oh Laurel, you are so precious, I just love reading about your day. I sure can relate to an up and down day. Take it easy on yourself, but keep your hands away from your back!

    Heather did a magnificent job on the card, it's beautiful.

    Blessings on your Friday.
  • The Preacher's Wife
    Oh you are blessed...my oldest got in a fight in the bathroom a couple weeks ago with a bully though the 'authorities' never knew about it. You have to know my kid, he is the most mild mannered child in the world, but this kid called him and his friend a sissy so my Einstein got this kid in a stinkin' head lock!! A HEADLOCK! Then tells the kid, "If you don't like this, wait and see what happens next time!" I threw him a party when he came home and told me about it! Balloons, cake, everything! (okay, not really) Maybe I got too excited, but you know, there is something so inspiring about the underdog rising up to defeat evil. YOu gotta love it! :)))

    And, we love you! You inspire friendship Laurel..that is why people are so good to you..You are just an INTERFRIEND MAGNET..:))

    Hope you have a level day today..:)) And sorry my post was soooo long.
  • janiswrites
    Ups and downs, indeed! After a day like that, it is sometimes hard to describe your day, isn't it? Kids can take us on a wild and bumpy ride sometimes. I think that your boys deserve your pride. Thanks for sharing!
  • Heather
    I told you God''s timing was perfect--He knew exactly what you would need to get through such a day.

    "Pride Awards" is that what they call them or what you call them? I wouldn't be surprised if that was their name for it, what with promotion of a false self-esteem being rampant in schools-- but naming something after a sin and calling the sin good--how very scriptural (Isaiah 5:20
    Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.)

    Sorry--that threw me.

    I would be proud. There is a time to fight and a time not to fight and standing up for someone despite the consequences is a time to fight. (In fact, I would say that in this case, the school punishing would be calling good bad--also scriptural. :))

    Talking to Deedee--I am sure you had a great time. Very cool!

    God is good and though a roller coaster, it sounds like a good rride. :)
  • eph2810
    I am glad that I stopped by this morning. I needed to read this...I know what our days are really busy, but if we slow down for just minute we see what God has blessed us with.

    Very cool card Heather has created for you. Heather has many talents :).

    I am so looking forward chatting with you over lunch (still need to set a time :))...

    Blessings on your day and always.
  • RealEstateGirl
    That was a roller coaster ride! But you know what? All the ups and downs of a roller coaster are what make it fun---and that's just all a part of what make our lives as rich as they are.

    God has taught me so many things in the "downhill descents"...yeah, sometimes screaming all the way down, wondering when it will ever end, but then HE lifts me higher than I imagined I could be.

    Isn't He good?

    Sounds like you have amazing kids and you should be proud!
  • Barb
    Guess I'm blessed because I enjoyed reading every word of this. I'm glad I'm not the only one who rambles out here. :-)

    That card is just lovely. What a sweet thing for her to do.

    It's a shame your oldest had to be punished for doing the right thing. I understand, but I'm with you. Secretly, I'd be very proud of him.

    Hope you have your camera handy when you and Iris get together.
  • Barbara H.
    What a sweet card!

    I am like you with the fighting -- we don't condone it and have taught our boys not it hit (or tried to -- they still sometimes did and then said, "We're just playin'!") But I would be proud, too, of a son who stood up for another child. I never knew parenting would bring such dilemmas! :) Sounds like you handled it all wisely.

    I agree about writing being therapy -- it does help me think things through and gain perspective.

    How exciting that you get to meet Iris!

    Hope today is a smoother ride. :)
  • Wendy
    I think you handled things well too.
    Linda said my thoughts well.

    That card is beautiful! How nice.
  • ChupieandJ'smama
    That's some rollercoaster, but over all I'd say you had a great day. Congratulations for having boys that any mother would be proud of. Have a blessed weekend :)
  • Judi
    Whew! What a ride! It's good to put in all down and see the blessings!
  • Michael
    Is your oldest coming out when you come to visit? If he is I want to shake his hand :)
  • NspiredByFaith
    It sounds like you took everything really well! I know you must be totally proud of your son for taking up for others! I think that is a fabulous trait and one I'm sure he'll refine and use for the good of everyone! Good on you for teaching them all so well! Have a great evening!
  • Linda
    Life really is a roller coaster ride sometimes. I think you handled things very well. I don't blame you for being proud of both your boys. Looks to me like they're developing excellent character traits.
    I think you summed it up very well. The blessings usually do outnumber the bad things. God is good.
  • Blessed Assurances
    I am with you on the sticking up for others, you should be proud. I think you handled it beautifully!

    I love the handmade card so sweet.
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