In “Other” Words…

by Lori

Our church had the wonderful opportunity to have Dr. Alvin Reid come and be a guest speaker. But he was not just the guest speaker; he went with the youth (high school and middle school) all weekend for Discipleship Now. My son was one of the youth that went. After hearing Dr. Reid preach Sunday morning I was jealous my son got to spend all weekend with him. I got this quote from his sermon. His sermon stayed with me all day and gave me a lot to “chew” on.


“You act more like a Christian by your influence on the lost, then the saved people you impress.” – Dr. Alvin Reid

 

If I were to ask the waiters at the restaurants you visit the most often, or the grocery store people you see almost daily, or the other stores you like to frequent, what could they tell me about you? If you are served a meal that is not exactly as you ordered it, what is your reaction? If they know you are a Christian, how do you tip? What impression do you leave on them? If there is a long line at the grocery store, and you are in the line stating 10 items or less and the person ahead of you clearly has over 10 items. Do they hear heavy sighing from you?

 

There are certain things every non-believer can tell right off the bat about a Christian. One, do we really care about them as a person. Or are we just offering them up Christianese lip service? I can tell you, even if they have never been in a church before they can tell the difference. How do we treat them? Secondly, do you actually believe what you talk about? You talk about how Christ forgives all sins, you share about his love, but do you really believe what you say? Do you live your life like you believe what you say? Lastly, a non believer can tell if the hand of God is on your life. They can tell if something is different about you, they may not be able to know what it is, but there is just something different.

Many times I believe we get too wrapped up in “looking good” to our fellow Christians. We have all the latest devotional books, we have the fish bumper sticker on our car, and we say all the right words. We don’t want to be seen with others who may tarnish our image. If you are seen hanging out with “Samaritans” then you must be a Samaritan yourself or at least believe the same things they do, right?

Wrong.

Christ sought “hanging out” with the Samaritans. He loved them, he was kind, and he was real. You can be all those things and hang out with Samaritans. Yes, you still need to be feed in the world, yes I believe belonging to a church or a support group is very important in the accountability factor. I am not diminishing any of that.

The Lord gave each of us individual personalities, and with those personality different ministries. I love the Christian Bikers that come to Daytona Beach for Bike week to show Christ to other bikers. Also Christian Bikers have a real ministry in reaching out to people in prison, many of them had bikes or really enjoy bikes. So finding that common ground with the lost is so important. And to find that common ground, you need to get to know them and them you. No matter what your focus is or who your audience is, you need be true to who you are and the ministry God has given you (not worried about what others think, because remember you will be rejected one time or another sometimes that rejection can come from fellow believers).

So don’t jump to conclusions if you see me hanging out with a group who looks a little questionable, for they are the ones that need me most. And I hope the waiters/waitress’, or the baggers, or the sales people can all say, “there is just something about her I like, it is something that comes from within.” For right there would be my opening line to share exactly where that comes from.

 

 

Acts 1:8

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.”

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  • Tami Boesiger
    I agree we need to make a good impression on all people. Why do we separate people into the categories of Christian and non-Christian? Can't we treat all people the same? Why do we put so much pressure on ourselves to be perfect for everyone? Shouldn't Christ's Spirit show in us to others? The best way to witness to others is to stay in close communion with our Lord.

    Thanks for your gracious words and for hosting this week.
  • chris
    WOW - wonderful! The Lord has used you in a might way with this post. Amen to what you have said! You are right on the mark. I have to admit that as I learned this I had to really pray that I could put aside some emotions/feelings I would have just looking at some people. The Lord has been gracious and helped me with this. I have enjoyed meeting alot of our daughters college friends - I may never know if they will accept God but I know I was able to share Christ with them and open our home to them. Praise God for the opportunities He gives us. I know I've disappointed Him and let some of these chances pass me by -'fear' but I'm not giving up! Thanks again for this fantastic post!
  • Heidi
    I'd just like to thank you for hosting this and for the lovely comment you left me. Very nice of you!
    I have been blessed by participating and have enjoyed reading other people's thoughts and even added a couple to my bloglines.
    Peace.
  • Heather Smith
    Great post! Remembering that I am making an impression everywhere I go is so important, but I don't want them to see the outside. I want them to see the inside. I want Christ to show through my life!
  • Blessed Assurances
    As my momma always says, "Actions speak louder than words." I used to wait tables and every once in awhile I would have to wait on Sundays. Sadly Christains are the worst people to wait on and very impatient. I pray not to be like that now on the opposite side of the table.

    God bless
    Susan
  • Linda
    That was wonderfull written Laurel. I agree with everything you've said. We too often get caught up in our own little world and then are no earthly good to those who need to heart the gospel. I know I have been guilty of that myself. It isn't easy to get out of my comfort zone. But it is easy to demonstrate Christ to those we come into contact with. Just a smile goes a long way I think.
    Great post.
  • Kelly
    Really loved this post! Sometimes we can get so focused on growing in Him that we forget we are called to be salt and light to the world. How can we touch those around us without connecting? THis challenges me to evaluate how I need to make changes to connect with the lost.
  • Sharon
    Thank you for the wonderful quote! As a pastor's wife I get ashamed at how badly the home-folk can treat those who are not like us coming into the church. The church is like a hospital to help heal those who are sick. We shouldn't expect them to be well and whole and enter the doors. Great post, it really got me to think!
  • ampraisingHim
    Great challenging quote!! I like what you said about non-Christians being able to tell about us by our behaviour, (clerks, waiters, etc.). May you have a blessed day. I enjoyed reading your post. Thanks for hosting this.
  • Cyndi
    This is a great quote, and a topic I had on my mind all week last week. I can't wait to read what everyone else has to say today during a break from teaching... Thanks so much for such well-chosen words for us all to ponder!
  • Blessed Beyond Measure
    Absolutely! James tells us - "preach the gospel, if necessary use words." We could all use a little more practice in that. Great post!
  • Especially Heather
    I love this quote! I pulled out an archived post that I had written on this topic, but it reflects my heart so very well.

    Thank you for hosting today Laurel!
    Heather
  • Sarah
    I got my Masters Degree from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary and Dr. Alvin Reid was/is a professor of Evangelism there. He is an amazing speaker and evangelist. I am so glad that you got to hear him at your church and your son learned from him for a weekend. Very Cool!
  • Christine
    Great quote today! I love the biker reference, they have such a great ministry.
  • Elisa
    Laurel, thanks for this challenging quote and your unpacking of it.

    I am in awe at how the Lord has used the times I've participated in IOW to speak to me throughout the weekend and following week. Your post echos what I gleaned from Reid's comment, and has really struck a chord with me. Thanks again!

    Blessings,
    Elisa
  • Terri
    It was such a great quote, I even played! Really inspiring, Laurel.
    Your post was wonderful--so much so I actually thought, hmm, maybe I shouldn't publish mine but I'm stretching myself and that's a good thing.

    Blessings~
  • Denise
    Beautifully said, thanks for sharing.
  • MiPa
    Thank you for this quote! It summed up so well what God has been teaching in my life about not becoming a Pharisee. It is so easy to miss the opportunity because it does not "look" like our brand of "righteousness." Which so often says what I call righteous is not right for anyone else.
  • Janean
    Thank you for hosting today!
    I appreciate what you had to say...I wrote mine Sunday and I see we had much the same impression from the chosen quote (though I feel yours' is much more well-written :D)
  • Taya
    What a wonderful choice for a quote this week! Your post was so good too! Thank you!
  • Loni
    Thanks for sharing this excellent quote. It had me thinking quite a bit, and so appreciate the convictions it brought about. THANK YOU!
  • Chris
    This makes me think, "does the clerk at the grocery store or the waiter at our favorite restrauant know we are Christians, not because we pray over our meal, but by the way we behave and respond?"
  • eph2810
    Forgot to wish you a blessed Tuesday - sorry, Laurel...
  • Crystal
    Awesome quote.....thank you for challenging my thinking. It's been a blessing.
  • Katherine@Raising Five
    I had a mentor whose favorite line was, "God is looking for men and women of character." I think you said this so perfectly. It's not what's on the outside, it's who you are that people will see. Thanks for this!
  • Heather
    Wonderful, Laurel.

    You know, I think in our church our pastor is such an example of this . Not only does he ride a motercycle (in black leather) and hunt (he collects knives and guns) but he also loves to dress as a cowboy. He and our head maintainence guy both belong to Christian Bikers. And our music minister? Shaved bald with an earring and wears trendy clothes to church. It really opens peoples eyes to the truth when they realize (by their actions) that these men are Christians, and it is a help to all of us to see how we can be an esample of Christ, and that that doesn't mean we have to wear suits or prim little dresses everyday to "look like" a Christian. It lso helps knowing that we are expected, wherever we go and whomever we are with to let Christ shine through, and they are a visual reminder of that.
  • Becky
    I have thought about this quote so much in the past few days, looking for inspiration. I finally decided to do some soul searching to see how my life compares with Christ's. As you can imagine, it pales in comparison. I loved your post!
  • Amydeanne
    This was a great pick for quotes! It's made me think a lot over the past few days!
    I can honestly say from once feeling pefectly snug in the "Christian culture" after falling down, I sure have a hard time feeling like I fit in with the crowd... don't get me wrong, it's not the worship I have a hard time with, it's what we don't show that I have a hard time with, kwim?!
    hugs and prayers!
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