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Difference between Man and Woman?

by Laurel on October 16, 2007

“Gentleness is part of being feminine - part of being a woman, and God made us distinctly different from men on purpose!”
~ Melanie Chitwood (Proverbs 31 Ministries)

What is the difference between man and woman? I think this poem by Kathryn Parrish says it all.

Modern Woman

These are the days of the E.R.A..,
When modern woman would have her way;
The scriptures, it seems, she’s never heard,
For she pays no attention to God’s word.

God’s order of the sexes she just ignores,
For man’s place she covets more and more,
Saying that she would be equal with man,
Forgetting the fact that she never can.

Neither could man ever take her place,
For he’s not equipped for bearing the race,
Nor has he a mother’s instinct and love,
Given to her from heaven above.

Now man reasons coolly with his head,
But woman is led by emotions instead;
God equipped man to take the hard knocks,
But made the woman, the cradle to rock.

Still, modern woman doesn’t see it that way,
So against her maker she rebels every day;
With bobbed hair and immodest dress,
For God’s Holy Word she could care less.

And even in churches this rebellion prevails,
For God said long hair and a covering, or veil;
In the church, be silent, be quiet and meek,
But she has even decided to preach!

Now God knows whats best for His creation,
And, oh, how well off would be this nation,
If each home were a castle, every man a king,
With a queen subjected to him in all things.

A queen he could love, and honor, and cherish,
And work to this end, that their home might flourish;
A queen in whom his heart could safely trust ,
He would seek her well-being, and protect her he must!

She would send him off with a smile and a prayer,
And a sense of well-being, knowing she was there;
To watch over his children and keep them from harm,
Teaching them and guiding them with a firm, loving arm.

And then he would hurry when day’s work was done,
Home to his queen, his daughters and sons;
They would live for each other and all live for God,
Serving Him together as life’s path they trod.

Oh, how much better off would be the human race,
If woman, once more, would take her God-given place;
But these are the days of the E.R.A.,
And modern woman would have her own way.

Yes, a bit on the controversial side, but I think it clearly shows how as women we have got off track to what God has made our purpose. Do I think we should wear veils, and be silent in church…NO. But as woman we have blurred the line between mens roles and womems roles. This is something I feel strongly about because I am finding more and more that my boys are not permitted to act like….well boys. Girls ask boys out now, girls take the lead. I have already talked to my boys on how that should not be so. I want them to be the leaders of the house, not the other way around.

Please visit Iris at Sting My Heart for more thoughts on this weeks quote.

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Tagged as: Kathryn Parrish, Melanie Chitwood, Modern Woman, Poem

{ 12 comments… read them below or add one }

1

MiPa 10.16.07 at 10:40 am

Well said! Bless you!

2

Rachel Anne 10.16.07 at 11:54 am

Finally, I’ve passed on the “You lift me up” award on my blog. It has taken me forever. But first and foremost, please know how much your blog lifts me up and how much I appreciate you. Thank you!

3

Kim 10.16.07 at 1:02 pm

Amen Sister!!!! I’m so glad to know that there are still woman out there…are thankful for their place!!!!

I’m so thankful to have a Husband, to lead our home, our children, and my spiritual well being!

4

Loni 10.16.07 at 2:11 pm

Ohhh, I absolutely LOVED this! So well put! Thanks for sharing & visiting!

5

Heather Cox 10.16.07 at 2:12 pm

I agree Laurel, boys need permission to act like boys and girls need to act like girls. There is no shame in the fact that we are different - God made us that way. Women are not less than men, just uniquely different and we need to find our definition of femininity in the Bible, not on TV!

6

Shannon 10.16.07 at 3:06 pm

Long gone are the days of traditional roles between men and women, but it doesn’t have to mean that we forget the role that God has asked us to play. Gentle, loving, tender, and strong - that is what it means to me for being a woman. God Bless

7

Amy Grant Bayliss 10.16.07 at 3:48 pm

I completely agree with you. I already have had to have discussions with my boys about girls and how the bible defines their roles. My boys are boys and they should be welcomed as such.

Great post!

8

Ruth 10.16.07 at 3:56 pm

wah! i just lost my comment. but not to be deterred — here i am again. :)

i wanted to say that i agree with you. and your title specifically - “difference between man and woman?” it seems our world paints a picture that there is NO difference. but God did make us different. And for different purposes. different doesn’t mean better or worse — if we are so busy looking at another and trying to be like them we will never fulfill our God-given call and purpose in this life.

i know i’ve fallen into that so often. looking at another and wanting to look/be like them and neglecting the gift within.

it’s wrong and that path will never bring freedom to the heart.

9

Heidi @ GGIP 10.16.07 at 3:59 pm

I don’t know Laurel.. While, I wholeheartedly agree that God created men and women differently (and I don’t really know of anyone who think they are, in fact, the same–the debate lies in what gender roles are mandated by God and the Bible), I just don’t see how this poem is helpful at all. I think that it is not just an expression of a viewpoint on an ongoing debate within the church, but I think it inheritely seeks to divide and shame.

I know that you don’t like controversy on your blog, and I certainly hope not to cause any, and I know that you are a wonderful person and I always enjoy your blog, but I just couldn’t ignore the feeling of division that this can cause among Christians.

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Sandy 10.16.07 at 6:47 pm

Hi Laurel, I haven’t been a big “comment” person on your blog, but I have to agree with this post. So much that I wonder if you have read my husband’s book, No More Christian Nice Guy?
We so want our boys to be “nice,” but how far do we go with it?
I won’t go on and on, but thank you for this post.

11

Elisa @ Extravagant Grace 10.16.07 at 9:29 pm

Thanks for sharing this poem and your thoughts. They really struck a similar chord! Keep it up with those boys of yours. All of our daughters will appreciate it!

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eph2810 10.17.07 at 12:50 am

I have never read the poem before, Laurel. Thank you so much for sharing it. It was refreshing to read your take on the quote. I noticed too that many girls take the lead today…not sure what has happened. I know that I would have never thought of asking out a boy when I was a teen…

Be blessed today and always.

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